{"id":3086,"date":"2017-02-21T20:44:13","date_gmt":"2017-02-21T18:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/en.erdalbora.com\/?p=3086"},"modified":"2017-02-21T20:44:13","modified_gmt":"2017-02-21T18:44:13","slug":"riker-lets-go-of-something","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdalbora.com\/en\/2017\/riker-lets-go-of-something\/","title":{"rendered":"Riker Lets Go of Something"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.2&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>I thought it would be good to share a some insights I expressed while chatting with a friend. The excerpt contains\u00a0some insights about peace, happiness and the desire for money, approval and fame,<\/p>\n<p>Me: \u00a0Riker lets go of something; <iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_83932\"  width=\"1080\" height=\"810\"  data-origwidth=\"1080\" data-origheight=\"810\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/E1V07137IWw?enablejsapi=1&autoplay=0&cc_load_policy=0&cc_lang_pref=&iv_load_policy=1&loop=0&rel=0&fs=1&playsinline=0&autohide=2&hl=en_US&theme=dark&color=red&controls=1&\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe><br \/> Me: Feel like Riker.. must let go of something. to get to the next step. but to do that i must get established deeper within myself.<br \/> Friend: Very good!<br \/> Friend: And haha I enjoy using TNG to illustrate impt moments \ud83d\ude42<br \/> Me:\u00a0hahaa<br \/> Me: was just randomly watching videos..<br \/> Me:\u00a0\ud83d\ude42<br \/> Friend: That&#8217;s funny \ud83d\ude42<br \/> Me: i know something that would really revolutionize a person&#8217;s life<br \/> Me: but to live it is like totally breaking free<br \/> Me:\u00a0internally<br \/> Me:\u00a0i am at this point where i can start to teach it to people<br \/> Me:\u00a0but to be able to do that i must really go for it<br \/> Friend: I agree you are doing amazing things<br \/> Friend: And are well beyond ready to share \ud83d\ude09<br \/> Me:\u00a0there is this doubt that.. i still have some slacking habits<br \/> Me:\u00a0mmm.. the doubt is how could i help people if i were sometimes slacking around<br \/> Me: but.. i could be in fact HAPPY slacking around<br \/> Me: isn&#8217;t the point peace and happiness?<br \/> Me: you know.. this doubt that these people who are in business or other areas<br \/> Me: how could i help them from this relaxed environment<br \/> Me: the thought that i should be working hard like them<br \/> Me: but..<br \/> Me: the reality is.. peace and happiness are the greatest experiences<br \/> Me: what is the point of working hard if you are not happy<br \/> Me: so it was like i was holding myself back because i was trying to prove something to myself<br \/> Me: which brings an endless loop<br \/> Me: because you can never prove it.<br \/> Me: you just be it, be in transcendence<br \/> Me: it is it&#8217;s own proof<br \/> Me: its<br \/> Me: and the doubts about money<br \/> Me: to go out and try to earn my due<br \/> Me: the idea that i should go out and prove myself and earn my due<br \/> Me: these are linked<br \/> Me: these make one the slave of money and approval<br \/> Me: if one is happy and peaceful one does not have to get approval from anyone<br \/> Me: and one is content with their current experience<br \/> Me: so no need to chase after money<br \/> Me: no need for approval or fame<br \/> Me: even no need to chase after experiences<br \/> Me:\u00a0they will come anyway<br \/> Me: and one will be peaceful and happy whatever comes<br \/> Me: and as one progresses<br \/> Me: more happiness, greater wisdom<br \/> Me: deeper peace<br \/> Me: and experiences fused with these inner states<br \/> Me: everything will be satisfied<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought it would be good to share a some insights I expressed while chatting with a friend. The excerpt contains\u00a0some insights about peace, happiness and the desire for money, approval and fame, Me: \u00a0Riker lets go of something; <iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_81142\"  width=\"1080\" height=\"810\"  data-origwidth=\"1080\" data-origheight=\"810\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/E1V07137IWw?enablejsapi=1&autoplay=0&cc_load_policy=0&cc_lang_pref=&iv_load_policy=1&loop=0&rel=0&fs=1&playsinline=0&autohide=2&hl=en_US&theme=dark&color=red&controls=1&\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe> Me: Feel like Riker.. must let go of something. to get to the next [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"I thought it would be good to share a some insights I expressed while chatting with a friend. The excerpt contains&nbsp;some insights about peace, happiness and the desire for money, approval and fame,\n\nMe: &nbsp;Riker lets go of something; [embedyt] http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=E1V07137IWw[\/embedyt]\nMe: Feel like Riker.. must let go of something. to get to the next step. but to do that i must get established deeper within myself.\nFriend: Very good!\nFriend: And haha I enjoy using TNG to illustrate impt moments :)\nMe:&nbsp;hahaa\nMe: was just randomly watching videos..\nMe:&nbsp;:)\nFriend: That's funny :)\nMe: i know something that would really revolutionize a person's life\nMe: but to live it is like totally breaking free\nMe:&nbsp;internally\nMe:&nbsp;i am at this point where i can start to teach it to people\nMe:&nbsp;but to be able to do that i must really go for it\nFriend: I agree you are doing amazing things\nFriend: And are well beyond ready to share ;)\nMe:&nbsp;there is this doubt that.. i still have some slacking habits\nMe:&nbsp;mmm.. the doubt is how could i help people if i were sometimes slacking around\nMe: but.. i could be in fact HAPPY slacking around\nMe: isn't the point peace and happiness?\nMe: you know.. this doubt that these people who are in business or other areas\nMe: how could i help them from this relaxed environment\nMe: the thought that i should be working hard like them\nMe: but..\nMe: the reality is.. peace and happiness are the greatest experiences\nMe: what is the point of working hard if you are not happy\nMe: so it was like i was holding myself back because i was trying to prove something to myself\nMe: which brings an endless loop\nMe: because you can never prove it.\nMe: you just be it, be in transcendence\nMe: it is it's own proof\nMe: its\nMe: and the doubts about money\nMe: to go out and try to earn my due\nMe: the idea that i should go out and prove myself and earn my due\nMe: these are linked\nMe: these make one the slave of money and approval\nMe: if one is happy and peaceful one does not have to get approval from anyone\nMe: and one is content with their current experience\nMe: so no need to chase after money\nMe: no need for approval or fame\nMe: even no need to chase after experiences\nMe:&nbsp;they will come anyway\nMe: and one will be peaceful and happy whatever comes\nMe: and as one progresses\nMe: more happiness, greater wisdom\nMe: deeper peace\nMe: and experiences fused with these inner states\nMe: everything will be satisfied\n\n&nbsp;\n\n&nbsp;","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[65,66,67,68,97,139,149,184,198,211],"class_list":["post-3086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-post","tag-desire","tag-desire-for-approval","tag-desire-for-fame","tag-desire-for-money","tag-happiness","tag-money","tag-peace","tag-star-trek","tag-transcendence","tag-working"],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":55516,"url":"https:\/\/erdalbora.com\/en\/2019\/what-is-the-best-nootropic-or-nootropic-stack-to-take-prior-to-a-job-interview\/","url_meta":{"origin":3086,"position":0},"title":"What is the best nootropic or nootropic stack to take prior to a job interview?","author":"Erdal Bora","date":"September 14, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Question &amp; 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