Happiness is Your Choice\u2026. Not Something You Must Find<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
You can invest in people but they will still do what they truly want to do. To avoid disappointment simply don\u2019t have unrealistic expectations. Investing in people does not guarantee that they will make choices based on your preferences. In fact this is a rather selfish understanding of investing. 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