{"id":58261,"date":"2014-08-25T20:21:01","date_gmt":"2014-08-25T18:21:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erdalbora.wordpress.com\/2014\/08\/25\/celibacy-and-another-question-what-now\/"},"modified":"2014-08-25T20:21:01","modified_gmt":"2014-08-25T18:21:01","slug":"celibacy-and-another-question-what-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdalbora.com\/en\/2014\/celibacy-and-another-question-what-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Celibacy, and Another Question: What Now?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]It has been slightly more than 1 month and I have been celibate. I haven&#8217;t been focusing on being celibate. I am just giving effort to sustain meditativeness and refraining from diving into the ego.<\/p>\n<p>And what now? Questions such as these start to arise when I am losing the focus on the Spiritual Heart. Just be in your heart. Nothing else is needed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Update (23 December 2016): <\/strong>I remember this celibacy state was broken after some time and did not last more than 2 or 3 months. There were lessons to learn. As of 23 December 2016, I have learned more on this state through experience. The following video series brings extensive explanation on this topic:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=AIUvSUCu6W4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Brahmacharya: Walking with God<\/a>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has been slightly more than 1 month and I have been celibate. I haven&#8217;t been focusing on being celibate. I am just giving effort to sustain meditativeness and refraining from diving into the ego. And what now? Questions such as these start to arise when I am losing the focus on the Spiritual Heart. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"It has been slightly more than 1 month and I have been celibate. I haven't been focusing on being celibate. I am just giving effort to sustain meditativeness and refraining from diving into the ego.\n\nAnd what now? Questions such as these start to arise when I am losing the focus on the Spiritual Heart. Just be in your heart. Nothing else is needed.\n\n<strong>Update (23 December 2016): <\/strong>I remember this celibacy state was broken after some time and did not last more than 2 or 3 months. 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