What is the best way to deal with a competitor who keeps trying to copy you?

by Erdal Bora | Sep 30, 2019 | Question & Answer

Lead them. Always be ahead by doing what you love. Take Tesla’s/Elon Musk’s example. They are always better than their competitors in creating the newest, most useful technology, because they are always working with dedication, passion and creativity, not from a lack...

I replay unwanted thoughts in my head over and over again while doing a certain action until it “feels right”. I heard this is OCD. It’s difficult to control and I hate it. How can I make these compulsions stop?

by Erdal Bora | Sep 29, 2019 | Question & Answer

Currently who you think you are is a construct of thoughts. But in reality, you are the awareness that is the container of everything, including your thoughts, your emotions and your body. You are trying to stop the thoughts by staying identified with some other...

What can people do to make the most use of their time getting to work and being productive during the commute?

by Erdal Bora | Sep 29, 2019 | Question & Answer

Look within yourself and see what is of most value to you that is doable during a commute. Books that you consciously picked? Other resources to browse that can support your growth and help you discover your creativity, how to create more value, or just be able to...

I’m in my mid 40s. I’ve lost all confidence in my ability to find a partner. Is that usual for my age?

by Erdal Bora | Sep 29, 2019 | Question & Answer

You are trying to project the responsibility to circumstances. Recognize that this idea is disempowering you. Learn to be happy from within yourself. Take responsibility for this, learn from others when necessary but never subscribe to the idea that something other...

How do I motivate a teen to learn to drive?

by Erdal Bora | Sep 28, 2019 | Question & Answer

Connect with your heart and live from here. Then whatever you do, it will touch the heart of the teen. And if it is their heart’s desire to learn to drive, then they would be supported by your actions towards this. This is the path of the heart. When they will...