How can I learn to accept compliments better?

by Erdal Bora | Oct 1, 2019 | Question & Answer

The lesser your ego, the lesser it’s reactions will be able to pull you around, when it is triggered by the environment/compliments. The more awakened you are, the less you will be empowering the ego. Are compliments that different than chastisements? Perhaps...

Why is it so hard to find someone with work ethic?

by Erdal Bora | Oct 1, 2019 | Question & Answer

Nothing is hard. (I will explain). Everything is possible in this universe. Every experience can be reached/created. Therefore, nothing is hard. We only experience what we call hard, because we get stuck in a place of trying to experience something when we in...

As a public speaker, do you go out and ask for opportunities to speak or do you wait for someone to offer you the opportunity, or is it a mix of both?

by Erdal Bora | Oct 1, 2019 | Question & Answer

? From where does this all begin? Does the chicken come first or the egg? I am inspired by a past memory when I had listened how the universe was created from a master. It will be distracting to share it here. But the point is.. what if all is springing forth in this...

How does having severe depression negatively affect work performance and work ethic?

by Erdal Bora | Oct 1, 2019 | Question & Answer

Hello, It can severely affect your performance (depending on how accustomed you are to have been already masking it as a habit). However, if you strive to be honest, your work ethic will not be compromised. Depending on your employer’s understanding, you may be...

Why can’t I control my intrusive thoughts no matter how much I try?

by Erdal Bora | Oct 1, 2019 | Question & Answer

Note: For a quick answer, skip to the end and study the last video. However, I suggest studying this answer as well to gain a path to fuller understanding. Let’s give an analogy that might help you understand the situation from a wider perspective. Imagine that you...